My father cut off my cousin; is it obligatory for us, her cousins, to visit her, considering that if he finds out, problems may arise?
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Question:
May Allah reward you with good and do you good. You say that your father has cut off your cousin, and he is currently traveling. Is it obligatory for us, her cousins and her uncle’s wife, to visit her, considering that if we visit her, problems will occur?
Answer:
Yes, you should visit her, counsel her, and reconcile her with the one she cut off, so that harmony and unity are restored between them. This is part of the work of reconciliation. Yes, reconciliation. Reconciliation is required among Muslims, especially among relatives with one another.[An-Nisa 4:114] Therefore, everyone should visit her, counsel her, and reconcile her with her relative. Yes.
May Allah reward you with good and do you good. You say that your father has cut off your cousin, and he is currently traveling. Is it obligatory for us, her cousins and her uncle’s wife, to visit her, considering that if we visit her, problems will occur?
Answer:
Yes, you should visit her, counsel her, and reconcile her with the one she cut off, so that harmony and unity are restored between them. This is part of the work of reconciliation. Yes, reconciliation. Reconciliation is required among Muslims, especially among relatives with one another.
No good is there in much of their private conversation, except for those who enjoin charity or that which is right or conciliation between people. And whoever does that seeking means to the approval of Allah - then We are going to give him a great reward.
لَّا خَيْرَ فِي كَثِيرٍ مِّن نَّجْوَاهُمْ إِلَّا مَنْ أَمَرَ بِصَدَقَةٍ أَوْ مَعْرُوفٍ أَوْ إِصْلَاحٍ بَيْنَ النَّاسِ وَمَن يَفْعَلْ ذَٰلِكَ ابْتِغَاءَ مَرْضَاتِ اللَّهِ فَسَوْفَ نُؤْتِيهِ أَجْرًا عَظِيمًا
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قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، بنت عمي قاطعها والدي هل تجب علينا نحن بنات عمها زيارتها علما أنه إذا علم قد تحدث مشاكل؟ الفوزان — youtube.com
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