What is your guidance for me if my father mocks me, knows nothing but criticism, and considers himself always right?
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Question:
May Allah reward you. Your Eminence, the father. The questioner says: My father mocks me a lot, and my family, and he curses us. He does not speak to us well, and he knows nothing but criticism. We have tried all methods with him, but they did not help. The situation has become severe regarding my commitment, and he sees that he is the one who is right and that I am always in the wrong. So what is your guidance for me?
Answer:
It is not right for you to speak ill of your father. This is not right from you, and this is not dutifulness. You must be patient with him, be dutiful to him, and treat him with kindness. Do not mention his faults to people. Do not mention his faults or his treatment of people. Be patient with him, be dutiful to him, maintain ties with him, and treat him well, so that perhaps he may reconsider. There is no doubt that the father is more merciful than the son. Nothing happens from the father in the way of mistreatment except due to something from the son. So treat him well and deal with him in the best manner. He is more merciful than you. Always. Yes.
May Allah reward you. Your Eminence, the father. The questioner says: My father mocks me a lot, and my family, and he curses us. He does not speak to us well, and he knows nothing but criticism. We have tried all methods with him, but they did not help. The situation has become severe regarding my commitment, and he sees that he is the one who is right and that I am always in the wrong. So what is your guidance for me?
Answer:
It is not right for you to speak ill of your father. This is not right from you, and this is not dutifulness. You must be patient with him, be dutiful to him, and treat him with kindness. Do not mention his faults to people. Do not mention his faults or his treatment of people. Be patient with him, be dutiful to him, maintain ties with him, and treat him well, so that perhaps he may reconsider. There is no doubt that the father is more merciful than the son. Nothing happens from the father in the way of mistreatment except due to something from the son. So treat him well and deal with him in the best manner. He is more merciful than you. Always. Yes.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، [2400- 4717] ما توجيهكم لي إذا كان أبي يسخر مني ولا يعرف إلا النقد ويرى نفسه على صواب؟-صالح الفوزان — youtube.com
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