Is scolding one's parents and raising one's voice at them considered undutifulness to parents?
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Question:
In another question, she says: I am a very hot-tempered girl, and I have a psychological condition. When my mother speaks to me about a certain matter, I scold her, and sometimes I raise my voice at her. Is this considered undutifulness to parents?
Answer:
Yes, this is considered undutifulness to parents and mistreatment of the mother or father. Allah the Exalted said:[Al-Isra 17:23] So you must repent to Allah, be gentle in your speech with your mother, and be kind to her. Yes.
In another question, she says: I am a very hot-tempered girl, and I have a psychological condition. When my mother speaks to me about a certain matter, I scold her, and sometimes I raise my voice at her. Is this considered undutifulness to parents?
Answer:
Yes, this is considered undutifulness to parents and mistreatment of the mother or father. Allah the Exalted said:
Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.
إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، 5296- هل تعنيف الوالدين ورفع الصوت عليهما يعتبر عقوقا؟ - الشيخ صالح الفوزان — youtube.com
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