I find it exhausting serving my five children and I count that as a reward with Allah, so if I express dissatisfaction or complaint, will that be a deduction from the reward?
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Question:
She says: I have five children and I am the one who takes care of serving and raising them. I find fatigue and difficulty in that, and I count it as a reward with Allah the Mighty and Majestic. If I express dissatisfaction or complaint, will that be a deduction from the reward or a reduction of it? May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
There is no doubt that patience and counting it as a reward are required, and that complaining to people and expressing dissatisfaction reduces the reward. So you must be patient, count it as a reward, and not express dissatisfaction. Yes.
She says: I have five children and I am the one who takes care of serving and raising them. I find fatigue and difficulty in that, and I count it as a reward with Allah the Mighty and Majestic. If I express dissatisfaction or complaint, will that be a deduction from the reward or a reduction of it? May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
There is no doubt that patience and counting it as a reward are required, and that complaining to people and expressing dissatisfaction reduces the reward. So you must be patient, count it as a reward, and not express dissatisfaction. Yes.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، أجد التعب في خدمة أطفالي الخمسة وأحتسب ذلك عند الله، فهل إذا صدر مني تذمر أو شكوى يكون مذهبا للأجر؟ — youtube.com
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