Does a man arguing with his wife during Hajj count as quarreling in Hajj and affect the Hajj?
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Question:
He says: I perform Hajj regularly, and it happens that I argue with my wife during Hajj over trivial matters, so I supplicate to Allah during Hajj to grant me something better than her and to separate us, and I do this in front of her. Is this considered quarreling in Hajj that affects the Hajj, while she is in a state of goodness and righteousness?
Answer:
You must both refrain from quarreling. Allah the Exalted said:[Al-Baqarah 2:197] You and she must refrain from quarreling. As for what has passed, Allah forgives it. You must refrain from quarreling in the future, and as for what has passed, Allah forgives it. And you must be patient with her. A woman inevitably has some degree of deviation, and it is part of her nature. So you must be patient with her.
He says: I perform Hajj regularly, and it happens that I argue with my wife during Hajj over trivial matters, so I supplicate to Allah during Hajj to grant me something better than her and to separate us, and I do this in front of her. Is this considered quarreling in Hajj that affects the Hajj, while she is in a state of goodness and righteousness?
Answer:
You must both refrain from quarreling. Allah the Exalted said:
so whoever has made Hajj obligatory upon himself therein [by entering the state of ihram], there is [to be for him] no sexual relations and no disobedience and no disputing during Hajj
فَمَن فَرَضَ فِيهِنَّ الْحَجَّ فَلَا رَفَثَ وَلَا فُسُوقَ وَلَا جِدَالَ فِي الْحَجِّ
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، هل تشاجر الرجل مع زوجته في الحج يُعَد من الجدال في الحج ويؤثر على الحج؟ للشيخ صالح الفوزان — youtube.com
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