Some people put others in an awkward position by asking them for things, causing them embarrassment and shyness
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Question : Some people put their brother in an awkward position by asking him for something, and he gives it to him while feeling embarrassed. The scholars said that this is forbidden (haram), and the one who gave it does not own it, meaning it does not enter his possession. They also said that if someone gives a person a gift out of embarrassment, it is obligatory for him to return the gift.
Answer : And this is the truth. It is not permissible for a person to put his brother in an awkward position, even if he gives it to him, for example, knowing that he would not have given it had he not been asked. So it is not permissible. Then we mentioned the issue of asking: if we know that the one being asked desires the thing and is happy with it, but he is shy to give it, then if you ask him and he is happy, there is no harm in asking.
Answer : And this is the truth. It is not permissible for a person to put his brother in an awkward position, even if he gives it to him, for example, knowing that he would not have given it had he not been asked. So it is not permissible. Then we mentioned the issue of asking: if we know that the one being asked desires the thing and is happy with it, but he is shy to give it, then if you ask him and he is happy, there is no harm in asking.
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قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 276 - 336 بعض الناس يحرج الآخرين ويسألهم أشياء فيعطونه حرجا وحياء - الشيخ ابن عثيمين — youtube.com
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