Questions on the Explanation of the Book of Nullifiers of Islam
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The questioner:
I converted to Islam three years ago, and my parents are disbelievers. Disbelievers. He says: I converted to Islam three years ago.
The Shaykh:
And the bone of the knee joint is broken, the major one. Yes. And his parents are good, a cotton picker. Huh? Disbelievers. Disbelievers, you are the first, and his parents are disbelievers, yes.
The questioner:
May Allah guide you. So how should the treatment of them be? And is it obligatory for me to hate them with absolute hatred?
The Shaykh:
The treatment is as Allah the Exalted said:[Al-Mujadila 58:22] So you hate them for the sake of Allah the Mighty and Majestic.
As for kindness, you are kind to them and dutiful to them, as He the Exalted said:[Luqman 31:15] [Luqman 31:15] They have a right over you, and the parent has a right even if he is a disbeliever, through dutifulness and kindness to him. As for love in the heart, no, no, you do not love a disbeliever ever. Ibrahim (peace be upon him), when it became clear to him that his father was an enemy to him, disavowed him.
I converted to Islam three years ago, and my parents are disbelievers. Disbelievers. He says: I converted to Islam three years ago.
The Shaykh:
And the bone of the knee joint is broken, the major one. Yes. And his parents are good, a cotton picker. Huh? Disbelievers. Disbelievers, you are the first, and his parents are disbelievers, yes.
The questioner:
May Allah guide you. So how should the treatment of them be? And is it obligatory for me to hate them with absolute hatred?
The Shaykh:
The treatment is as Allah the Exalted said:
You will not find a people who believe in Allah and the Last Day having affection for those who oppose Allah and His Messenger, even if they were their fathers or their sons
لَّا تَجِدُ قَوْمًا يُؤْمِنُونَ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ يُوَادُّونَ مَنْ حَادَّ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَلَوْ كَانُوا آبَاءَهُمْ أَوْ أَبْنَاءَهُمْAs for kindness, you are kind to them and dutiful to them, as He the Exalted said:
But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge
وَإِن جَاهَدَاكَ عَلَىٰ أَن تُشْرِكَ بِي مَا لَيْسَ لَكَ بِهِ عِلْمٌdo not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness
فَلَا تُطِعْهُمَا وَصَاحِبْهُمَا فِي الدُّنْيَا مَعْرُوفًا
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، 253من279/اسئلة شرح كتاب نواقض الاسلام/كيف اتعامل مع ابواي الكافرين/صالح الفوزان/كبار العلماء/عقيدة — youtube.com
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