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﴿ فَاسْأَلُوا أَهْلَ الذِّكْرِ إِن كُنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ ﴾

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Is it undutifulness to parents for a son to supplicate for his mother more than for his father?

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Question : This questioner, Tariq Hassan, is Egyptian and resides in Makkah al-Mukarramah. He says: Honorable Shaykh, I give my mother a great deal of supplication, but I give my father only a little, and I often forget to supplicate for him. Is that undutifulness to him, knowing that I love him very much? I hope for an answer from the Honorable Shaykh. May Allah reward you with good.

Answer : It is best for a person to make du'a' for both of his parents, saying: "O Allah,
My Lord, forgive me and my parentsرَّبِّ اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ
[Nuh 71:28]
O Allah, forgive my father, O Allah,
have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small."ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا
[Al-Isra 17:24]
" and the like. This is the best. And if he gives his mother preference over his father, there is no blame on him for that, because the mother is more deserving of good companionship than the father, as that came in the hadith from the Messenger
Source قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 1768- هل من العقوق ان يدعو الولد لأمه اكثر من ابيه /سؤال على الهاتف 📞 /ابن عثيمين — youtube.com

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