The Ruling on Excessive Effort in Condolences

Question:
Regarding the issue of condolences and gathering for them, some people go to great lengths in this matter. If we speak to them, they say, "We do this, and we do not intend it as an act of worship; rather, the intention is custom." How should we respond to them?

Answer:
It is not permissible to gather for condolences, suspend work, sit in the houses, open the door for condolences, set specific days for it, or prepare feasts. All of this is not permissible. Condolences are made easy; they do not require this excessive effort. If you meet someone who has suffered a loss, offer your condolences, greet him, offer your condolences, and make du'a' for the deceased in any place—in the mosque, in the shop, in the street, in any place, at the workplace. There is no need for a gathering, no need for preparing feasts, and no need to set a specific duration. Yes.