If I cannot bear the burdens of marriage and I fear for myself from fitnah (trial, discord or temptation), is it permissible for me to enter into a musyar marriage?
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Question:
He says: Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. The questioner says: I am a man who has no father, I am a man who has no father or anyone to bear the burdens of my lawful marriage, and I am still a student. Is it permissible for me to enter into a musyar marriage? This is because I do not trust myself, I do not feel safe for myself from fitnah (trial, discord or temptation).
Answer:
A musyar marriage is not in your best interest, my brother. It is not in your best interest, and it does not have the benefits of marriage except for one thing, which is satisfying the desire. So we advise you to be patient. He, Exalted and Majestic is He, said:[An-Nur 24:33]. Yes.
He says: Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. The questioner says: I am a man who has no father, I am a man who has no father or anyone to bear the burdens of my lawful marriage, and I am still a student. Is it permissible for me to enter into a musyar marriage? This is because I do not trust myself, I do not feel safe for myself from fitnah (trial, discord or temptation).
Answer:
A musyar marriage is not in your best interest, my brother. It is not in your best interest, and it does not have the benefits of marriage except for one thing, which is satisfying the desire. So we advise you to be patient. He, Exalted and Majestic is He, said:
But let them who find not [the means for] marriage abstain [from sexual relations] until Allah enriches them from His bounty.
وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ الَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّىٰ يُغْنِيَهُمُ اللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِ
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، [3800- 4717] إذا كنت لا أستطيع تحمل أعباء الزواج وأخاف على نفسي من الفتنة فهل يجوز لي زواج المسيار؟ — youtube.com
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