Advice to a wife to be patient with what her husband does to her
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Question:
May Allah reward you. The sender, whose name begins with the letter lam, from al-Qasim says: Disagreements occur between me and my husband, and he is the cause of them most of the time. Then I remain with a frown on my face for the whole day, and I do not want to speak to him. Sometimes I leave a household task undone because of distress in my heart. What is the ruling on that? And what do you advise me to do? May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
We advise you to bear what comes from your husband and not to get angry, for anger is blameworthy, especially between spouses. Each of them should be lenient with what comes from the other for the sake of marital interest. You will have a reward for that[Ash-Shuraa 42:40]. This is if what the questioner mentioned is true, that he wrongs her. The best and most desirable thing for her is to be patient and to fulfill her obligatory duties regarding her husband, her household work, and the upbringing of her children. She will have a reward for that, if Allah wills. Yes.
May Allah reward you. The sender, whose name begins with the letter lam, from al-Qasim says: Disagreements occur between me and my husband, and he is the cause of them most of the time. Then I remain with a frown on my face for the whole day, and I do not want to speak to him. Sometimes I leave a household task undone because of distress in my heart. What is the ruling on that? And what do you advise me to do? May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
We advise you to bear what comes from your husband and not to get angry, for anger is blameworthy, especially between spouses. Each of them should be lenient with what comes from the other for the sake of marital interest. You will have a reward for that
but whoever pardons and makes reconciliation - his reward is [due] from Allah
فَمَنْ عَفَا وَأَصْلَحَ فَأَجْرُهُ عَلَى اللَّهِ
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، 5045- نصيحة للزوجة بأن تصبر على ما يصدر من زوجها في حقها - الشيخ صالح الفوزان — youtube.com
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