I want to get married, but my father refuses because my salary is only two thousand riyals. Should I disobey him and get married, or what should I do?
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Question : This question, as I mentioned, is similar. He says: I am a young man seeking knowledge by the grace of Allah, and I work with a monthly salary of two thousand riyals. However, I find that women are mentioned in his name, or rather, I have informed my father many times that I want to get married, but he strongly refuses until I find another job with a salary of more than two thousand riyals. In these days, finding work is somewhat difficult. So, should I obey my father, or should I disobey him and get married to secure my religion?
Answer : Yes, I say: get married, and I congratulate you in advance. May Allah bless you both and unite you in goodness. Get married in any case, and do not worry about it, even if your father forbids you and says, "Do not get married; you are young, and your salary is small." Get married. Allah the Exalted says:[An-Nur 24:33] And in the hadith: Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1655Hasan (Darussalam) It mentions the one who marries with the intention of chastity, as if I were saying, "I got married." Invite your brothers to the wedding feast and to accompany you to the wife's family home, and there is no harm on you.
Answer : Yes, I say: get married, and I congratulate you in advance. May Allah bless you both and unite you in goodness. Get married in any case, and do not worry about it, even if your father forbids you and says, "Do not get married; you are young, and your salary is small." Get married. Allah the Exalted says:
But let them who find not [the means for] marriage abstain [from sexual relations] until Allah enriches them from His bounty.
وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ الَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّىٰ يُغْنِيَهُمُ اللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِThere are three for whom it is a right upon Allah to help him
ثلاثة حق على الله عونهم
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قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 56 - 64 أريد الزواج لكن والدي يرفض لأن مرتبي ألفي ريال فقط فهل أخالفه وأتزوج أم ماذا؟ — youtube.com
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