Benefits of the Hadith of Safiyyah Regarding Avoiding Places of Doubt
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Question:
Among the things mentioned in the hadith regarding i'tikaf (spiritual retreat in the mosque), Honorable Shaykh, is the hadith of Safiyyah bint Huyayy (may Allah be pleased with her). She used to visit the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) while he was in i'tikaf in the mosque. She would sit with him for a while, then get up to return to her home. It was night, so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) got up to walk with her. Her home was in the house of Usamah ibn Zayd, on the outskirts of Madinah. When they were partway down the road, they met two men from the Ansar, who hurried away and hid themselves.Sahih al-Bukhari 3281 Here, Honorable Shaykh, if you could speak about this Prophetic guidance regarding avoiding places of doubt and clearing oneself of suspicion.
Answer:
First, this hadith indicates that there is nothing wrong with a woman visiting her husband while he is in i'tikaf in the mosque, and that she may attend to his affairs if he has a need, for she can fulfill it and sit with him; there is no harm in that. What is forbidden is sexual intercourse. Second, it is understood from this hadith that a woman should not walk alone in the street at night; rather, her husband or a mahram (a relative one may not marry) should be with her.
This protects her from the desires of the people of hypocrisy and those with diseased hearts. So, a mahram from her husband or other mahrams should be with her, and she should not walk alone in the street at night. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) stood up to accompany her, which shows the protection of women, the modesty of women, and the concern of a woman's guardian for her safety. Many Muslims today neglect this with their women, leaving them to go out at night to markets and streets without any supervision from their guardians or mahrams. This is feared to lead to severe harm, the loss of morals, and fitnah (trial, discord or temptation).
Also, it is understood from this hadith that the presence of a man with a woman is a place of doubt if he is not her mahram. Yes.
Because these Companions, when they saw the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) with the woman, felt shy and hurried away. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) wanted to remove this suspicion that had arisen, so he said, "Slow down," meaning do not hurry, for there is no harm in the matter, as she is Safiyyah bint Huyayy, the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). This shows the removal of the doubt that arises in a Muslim and the clarification of the true reality, so that there is no ill opinion of any Muslim. However, in any case, this indicates that a woman should stay away from men who are not her mahrams.
Among the things mentioned in the hadith regarding i'tikaf (spiritual retreat in the mosque), Honorable Shaykh, is the hadith of Safiyyah bint Huyayy (may Allah be pleased with her). She used to visit the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) while he was in i'tikaf in the mosque. She would sit with him for a while, then get up to return to her home. It was night, so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) got up to walk with her. Her home was in the house of Usamah ibn Zayd, on the outskirts of Madinah. When they were partway down the road, they met two men from the Ansar, who hurried away and hid themselves.
The Prophet said (to them). "Don't hurry! It is Safiya, the daughter of Huyay (i.e. my wife)." They said, "Glorified be Allah! O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)!
فقال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم على رسلكما إنها صفية فقال سبحان الله يا رسول اللهAnswer:
First, this hadith indicates that there is nothing wrong with a woman visiting her husband while he is in i'tikaf in the mosque, and that she may attend to his affairs if he has a need, for she can fulfill it and sit with him; there is no harm in that. What is forbidden is sexual intercourse. Second, it is understood from this hadith that a woman should not walk alone in the street at night; rather, her husband or a mahram (a relative one may not marry) should be with her.
This protects her from the desires of the people of hypocrisy and those with diseased hearts. So, a mahram from her husband or other mahrams should be with her, and she should not walk alone in the street at night. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) stood up to accompany her, which shows the protection of women, the modesty of women, and the concern of a woman's guardian for her safety. Many Muslims today neglect this with their women, leaving them to go out at night to markets and streets without any supervision from their guardians or mahrams. This is feared to lead to severe harm, the loss of morals, and fitnah (trial, discord or temptation).
Also, it is understood from this hadith that the presence of a man with a woman is a place of doubt if he is not her mahram. Yes.
Because these Companions, when they saw the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) with the woman, felt shy and hurried away. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) wanted to remove this suspicion that had arisen, so he said, "Slow down," meaning do not hurry, for there is no harm in the matter, as she is Safiyyah bint Huyayy, the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). This shows the removal of the doubt that arises in a Muslim and the clarification of the true reality, so that there is no ill opinion of any Muslim. However, in any case, this indicates that a woman should stay away from men who are not her mahrams.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، 16 من 27|وقفات مع آيات الصيام|مبطلات الاعتكاف|صالح الفوزان|فقه|كبار العلماء — youtube.com (4:56)
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