Asking about fate and destiny in marriage, and whether a woman must leave the house so that people can see her, and whether there is a specific supplication for this?
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Question:
She asks about fate and destiny in marriage, and whether a woman must leave the house so that her destiny is fulfilled and people see her, or what do you advise her to do? Is there a specific supplication for such situations? May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
The woman should fear Allah the Exalted and rely upon Him. She should have good opinion of Him and adhere to the laws of the religion, and Allah the Exalted will make things easy for her. Allah the Exalted said:[At-Talaq 65:2-3] So she should rely upon Allah the Exalted, and preserve her religion, her good morals, and her modesty. As for her going out and appearing so that people see her, this has dangers; she may be exposed to fitnah (trial, discord or temptation), and she may display her adornment under the pretext that she wants to attract attention to herself, which leads to dangers. This is not prescribed; rather, it is forbidden if it reaches the level of tabarruj (a woman's display of her adornment) and showing her beauty to people, specifically to men. This is forbidden. But she should fear Allah, rely upon Allah, have good opinion of Allah Mighty and Majestic, and what is decreed for her will come to her. Yes.
She asks about fate and destiny in marriage, and whether a woman must leave the house so that her destiny is fulfilled and people see her, or what do you advise her to do? Is there a specific supplication for such situations? May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
The woman should fear Allah the Exalted and rely upon Him. She should have good opinion of Him and adhere to the laws of the religion, and Allah the Exalted will make things easy for her. Allah the Exalted said:
And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him a way out (3) And will provide for him from where he does not expect. And whoever relies upon Allah - then He is sufficient for him. Indeed, Allah will accomplish His purpose.
وَمَن يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُ مَخْرَجًا وَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ وَمَن يَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ فَهُوَ حَسْبُهُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ بَالِغُ أَمْرِهِ
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، تسأل عن القسمة والنصيب في الزواج وهل على المرأة ان تخرج من البيت حتى يراها الناس، وهل ورد لهذا دعاء؟ — youtube.com
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