What is the ruling on being absent from one's wife?

Question : The questioner says: I am a married man, and I have been away for three years. I have four children, and I have not visited my wife during this period. What is the ruling?

Answer : If you are confident in her fidelity while she is in her place, then the right is hers. If she permits you to do so, there is no blame on you in this, and the right is hers. However, if she demands this from you, it is obligatory for you to fulfill her right to the extent of your ability.