The ruling on a woman marrying herself without the permission of her guardian
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The questioner : He says: Did the woman ask, "Do you want this man or not?" Silence. She said, "I killed myself, O Messenger of Allah."
The Shaykh : Yes, but the Messenger did not want it. His issue is that he says: How did the man marry her without her permission? Shaybah.
The questioner : This was when she offered herself to the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him), and the Messenger allowed this man, so it was with the consent of the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him). So she is coming to compare the Messenger.
The Shaykh : Yes, but there is a difference between this and that.
The questioner : A bow from the quiver was the box, actually, and where she did not speak.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : We say first.
The Shaykh : This one is not a virgin, I do not know, by Allah, whether she is a virgin or not. Correct.
The questioner : First, this is among the specific privileges of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Second, we say that the woman offered herself to the Prophet, so it became
The Shaykh : meaning, as if she delegated the matter to him. This is the apparent meaning. The apparent meaning is that the woman delegated herself to the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) with a complete delegation. And Allah the Exalted said:[Al-Ahzab 33:6]
The Shaykh : Yes, but the Messenger did not want it. His issue is that he says: How did the man marry her without her permission? Shaybah.
The questioner : This was when she offered herself to the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him), and the Messenger allowed this man, so it was with the consent of the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him). So she is coming to compare the Messenger.
The Shaykh : Yes, but there is a difference between this and that.
The questioner : A bow from the quiver was the box, actually, and where she did not speak.
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : We say first.
The Shaykh : This one is not a virgin, I do not know, by Allah, whether she is a virgin or not. Correct.
The questioner : First, this is among the specific privileges of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Second, we say that the woman offered herself to the Prophet, so it became
The Shaykh : meaning, as if she delegated the matter to him. This is the apparent meaning. The apparent meaning is that the woman delegated herself to the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) with a complete delegation. And Allah the Exalted said:
The Prophet is more worthy of the believers than themselves
النَّبِيُّ أَوْلَىٰ بِالْمُؤْمِنِينَ مِنْ أَنفُسِهِمْ
Source
قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 1912 - 4600 لماذا لم يسأل الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم المرأة التى وهبت نفسها له هل...؟ ابن عثيمين — youtube.com
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