Does the status of being a married person (muhsan) remain for a husband who has intercourse with his wife, even if she resists it?
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The questioner : Some wives, when the husband wants to have intercourse with his family, meaning he refuses, but this woman’s refusal is not in the sense that she does not want it, but rather she is ill. Yes. A mental illness or, I mean, something like that. She says, “I do not enjoy it, because I know that she is cursed by the saying of Allah the Exalted if you want this thing. But I do want it, but when my husband, I mean, comes to me, I feel extreme distress and, I mean, I do not want this thing.”
The Shaykh : What did the author say? He says: provided it does not harm her.
The questioner : No problem.
The Shaykh : Shaykh Usamah, she said to him.
The questioner : Is the question whether it is considered a good deed? I mean, some wives are such that the husband knows his wife does not want this thing.
The Shaykh : Is Abu a muhsan?
The questioner : Be comfortable.
The Shaykh : Is it not intercourse, or is it?
The questioner : Yes, he had intercourse with her, but she is ill now.
The Shaykh : Do you see, if she died, would your status as a muhsan be removed?
The questioner : No.
The Shaykh : Okay, that is it.
The Shaykh : What did the author say? He says: provided it does not harm her.
The questioner : No problem.
The Shaykh : Shaykh Usamah, she said to him.
The questioner : Is the question whether it is considered a good deed? I mean, some wives are such that the husband knows his wife does not want this thing.
The Shaykh : Is Abu a muhsan?
The questioner : Be comfortable.
The Shaykh : Is it not intercourse, or is it?
The questioner : Yes, he had intercourse with her, but she is ill now.
The Shaykh : Do you see, if she died, would your status as a muhsan be removed?
The questioner : No.
The Shaykh : Okay, that is it.
Source
قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 567- هل يثبت الإحصان للزوج بجماعه زوجته وإن كرهت ذلك؟ - ابن عثيمين — youtube.com
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