The inner voice that the mother is the cause of the problems in the marriage she chose
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Question:
He says: My mother chose a wife for me that I do not want. The marriage took place, and the problems multiplied. I constantly tell myself that she is the cause, it is just an inner thought. Is this undutifulness to parents?
Answer:
Do not consider this to be outside the divine decree and destiny. If the woman is not suitable for you, you can separate from her and replace her with another wife. Your mother exerted effort in this; she exerted effort for you, but the effort was not correct, so she will be rewarded, if Allah wills. As for you looking at the woman's situation to see if she is suitable and can continue, or not, that is up to you.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you.
He says: My mother chose a wife for me that I do not want. The marriage took place, and the problems multiplied. I constantly tell myself that she is the cause, it is just an inner thought. Is this undutifulness to parents?
Answer:
Do not consider this to be outside the divine decree and destiny. If the woman is not suitable for you, you can separate from her and replace her with another wife. Your mother exerted effort in this; she exerted effort for you, but the effort was not correct, so she will be rewarded, if Allah wills. As for you looking at the woman's situation to see if she is suitable and can continue, or not, that is up to you.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، محاضرات في العقيدة والدعوة-27-بر الوالدين والتحذير من العقوق|صالح الفوزان|العام|كبار العلماء — youtube.com (58:27)
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