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﴿ فَاسْأَلُوا أَهْلَ الذِّكْرِ إِن كُنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ ﴾

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How can a mother raise her children in a manner that pleases Allah (Mighty and Majestic)?

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Question:
How can a mother raise her children in a manner that pleases Allah (Mighty and Majestic)?

Answer:
As the Prophet said
(peace and blessings be upon him) "Order your children to pray when they are seven years old, beat them for it when they are ten, and separate them in their beds."صلى الله عليه وسلم مروا أولادكم بالصلاة في سبع تربوهم عليها لعشر، وفرقوا بينهم في المضاجع،
, the most important thing for her is to raise them to pray, once they reach the age of discernment. She should also raise them to memorize the Qur'an, because they are at the age of youth and the age of memorization. So she should strive to have them memorize the entire Qur'an, or the entire Qur'an, or whatever is easy for them. She should also have them memorize whatever is easy of the hadiths of the Messenger, (peace and blessings be upon him). She should raise them to be truthful and warn them against lying. Ibrahim al-Nakha'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said, "We used to be beaten for bearing false witness and breaking promises when we were young." She should also raise them to respect people, especially their parents, and to avoid the gatherings of evil and the company of evil. She should monitor them when they go out and when they come in, and even in their beds. The Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
and arrange their beds (to sleep) separately.وفرقوا بينهم في المضاجع
Sunan Abi Dawud 495Hasan Sahih (Al-Albani)
Source قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، كيف تستطيع الأم أن تربي أطفالها التربية التي ترضي الله عز وجل؟ الشيخ صالح بن فوزان الفوزان — youtube.com

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