The Ruling on Raising One's Voice to One's Parents
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Question:
My mother uses harsh words toward me, but sometimes I get angry and raise my voice at her, asking her to be quiet. Do I have a sin on my account?
Answer:
It is permissible for a son to raise his voice against his father. His saying[Al-Isra 17:23] means do not raise your voice against them. [Al-Isra 17:23] Raising one's voice against one's parents and scolding them is a form of undutifulness. This is not permissible. Allah has commanded him to speak kindly, which means lowering one's voice and respecting his parents, because this is among their rights over him. Therefore, it is obligatory for him to repent to Allah. If he scolds him or speaks to him harshly when he sees from him what is not befitting, does the father have the right to discipline his son and scold him for bad character? As for the son, he does not have the right to scold his father. May Allah reward you with good, and may Allah do you good.
My mother uses harsh words toward me, but sometimes I get angry and raise my voice at her, asking her to be quiet. Do I have a sin on my account?
Answer:
It is permissible for a son to raise his voice against his father. His saying
say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them
فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَاbut speak to them a noble word.
وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، يقول والدتي تتلفظ علي بألفاظ حادة ولكنني في بعض الأحيان أغضب وأرفع صوتي عليها طالباً منها السكوت...؟ — youtube.com
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