Does one who dies while refraining from marriage enter the Fire?
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Question:
May Allah bless you. From Riyadh, the questioner, Alif 'Ayn, says: I have heard people say that the one who refrains from marriage and does not get married, and remains a bachelor, enters the Fire. Is this correct, Honorable Shaykh? Please inform us. May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
This statement is an exaggeration. There is no doubt that marriage is encouraged for one who is able to fulfill its rights, as the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said:Mishkat al-Masabih 3080 Sahih al-Bukhari 1905 Marriage is sought after because of the great benefits it contains, and one should not desire to avoid marriage if he is able to do it, because this is contrary to the Sunnah to which the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) urged people. However, the matter does not reach the point of entering the Fire; rather, this action is disliked and contrary to the Sunnah if done out of religious zeal. If done out of religious zeal, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade it, as reported to him about the three men, one of whom said, "I will pray and not sleep," the second said, "I will fast and not break my fast," and the third said, "I will not marry women." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: So if he does this out of religious zeal, it is forbidden, because this is extremism and rigidity in religion. But if he does it not out of religious zeal, but rather to escape the responsibilities and burdens of marriage, then this is a disliked matter. Allah (Mighty and Majestic) helps the one who marries with his provision and his obligations. Allah helps the one who marries, as He said: "And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty." Allah the Exalted said: [An-Nur 24:32] So He promised the married with wealth. Yes.
May Allah bless you. From Riyadh, the questioner, Alif 'Ayn, says: I have heard people say that the one who refrains from marriage and does not get married, and remains a bachelor, enters the Fire. Is this correct, Honorable Shaykh? Please inform us. May Allah reward you with good.
Answer:
This statement is an exaggeration. There is no doubt that marriage is encouraged for one who is able to fulfill its rights, as the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
Young man, those of you who can support a wife
يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءةHe who can afford to marry should marry, because it will help him refrain from looking at other women, and save his private parts from committing illegal sexual relation; and he who cannot afford to marry is advised to fast, as fasting will diminish his sexual power.
فأن يتزوج فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج، ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم، فإنه له وجاء،(peace and blessings be upon him)
صلى(peace and blessings be upon him) As for me, I fast and I break my fast, I pray and I sleep, and I marry women. Whoever rejects my Sunnah is not of me.
الله عليه وسلم أما أنا فأصوم وأفطر وأصلي وأنام وأتزوج النساء ومن رغب عن سنتي فليس مني،And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty
وَأَنكِحُوا الْأَيَامَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ إِن يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِ
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، هل من مات وهو عازف عن الزواج دخل النار؟ الشيخ صالح الفوزان — youtube.com
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