The Meaning of the Hadith: “Men are ruined when they obey women”
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Question:
A questioner says: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said. What is the authenticity of this hadith and what is its meaning?
Answer:
By Allah, I do not know if this hadith is authentic, nor do I know anything about it. However, there is no doubt that if a man submits to a woman, and the woman is deficient in intellect and religion, she will drag him into something with no good outcome. Therefore, a man should not always submit to a woman. If the woman is intelligent and wise and advises him of something correct at times, there is no harm. But if he gives her the lead always, that is not permissible. The obligatory is the opposite: the woman is the one who follows the man,[An-Nisa 4:34].
The presenter:
May Allah reward you,
A questioner says: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said
Men are ruined as long as they obey women
هلكت الرجال ما أطاعت النساءAnswer:
By Allah, I do not know if this hadith is authentic, nor do I know anything about it. However, there is no doubt that if a man submits to a woman, and the woman is deficient in intellect and religion, she will drag him into something with no good outcome. Therefore, a man should not always submit to a woman. If the woman is intelligent and wise and advises him of something correct at times, there is no harm. But if he gives her the lead always, that is not permissible. The obligatory is the opposite: the woman is the one who follows the man,
Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other
الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍThe presenter:
May Allah reward you,
Source
بلوغ المرام [12] — alfawzan.live (58:08)
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