Cutting off contact with a mother who curses her daughter
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Question:
She says: I am living with a great problem, which is that my mother does not love me, and sometimes she even curses me, even though I am the most dutiful of her daughters toward her. But this is my qadar (divine decree). So, if I do not contact her for a long period so that I do not hear her cursing me, is there any harm in that for me?
Answer:
There is no doubt that a parent is the most compassionate person toward their child and the most merciful to them, and the most eager for their well-being. If something contrary to this occurs, it is for a reason on the part of the child. So you must be kind to her and be patient with what you encounter from her. It is not permissible for you to cut off contact with her; rather, you must either pray for her or be patient with what you encounter from her, while being gentle with her and treating her with good companionship. I do not think that, despite this, she will do anything that upsets you. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you,
She says: I am living with a great problem, which is that my mother does not love me, and sometimes she even curses me, even though I am the most dutiful of her daughters toward her. But this is my qadar (divine decree). So, if I do not contact her for a long period so that I do not hear her cursing me, is there any harm in that for me?
Answer:
There is no doubt that a parent is the most compassionate person toward their child and the most merciful to them, and the most eager for their well-being. If something contrary to this occurs, it is for a reason on the part of the child. So you must be kind to her and be patient with what you encounter from her. It is not permissible for you to cut off contact with her; rather, you must either pray for her or be patient with what you encounter from her, while being gentle with her and treating her with good companionship. I do not think that, despite this, she will do anything that upsets you. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you,
Source
لقاء مفتوح [الزلفي] — alfawzan.live (18:43)
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