The author states that if a man’s heart becomes attached to a woman and he seeks her approval, does that contradict?

Question:
He says: It is mentioned in the author’s book that, may Allah have mercy on him, if a man’s heart becomes attached to a woman, that contradicts servitude. No, if he seeks her approval. He says that the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) used to seek the approval of his wives in matters other than disobedience. I ask for your comment on this, as some people of weak character in their wives take...

Answer:
It is clear that pleasing the wife by giving her her rights, giving her her rights, and treating her with kindness is what Allah has commanded, and He said, “Treat them with kindness.” She has a right, without doubt. The issue is if he prefers her approval over the approval of Allah, Glorified and Exalted is He. Even if it were your fathers, your sons, your brothers... until He said: and your wives. They play or diminish. But if he does not prioritize it, he has only given her the right of a servant, which is a required matter.