The husband saying to his wife, "Go to your family"
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Question:
In the case where he says to her, "Go to your family," is it not more appropriate that she remain with him and then lengthen the waiting period?
Answer:
No, go to your family. He has forbidden you by a single pronouncement of divorce. As for remaining with him, that is the recommended practice; that is the obligatory thing, to remain with him. It does not benefit her in the house unless it is the final pronouncement, because the final pronouncement has made her forbidden to him.
In the case where he says to her, "Go to your family," is it not more appropriate that she remain with him and then lengthen the waiting period?
Answer:
No, go to your family. He has forbidden you by a single pronouncement of divorce. As for remaining with him, that is the recommended practice; that is the obligatory thing, to remain with him. It does not benefit her in the house unless it is the final pronouncement, because the final pronouncement has made her forbidden to him.
Source
ندوات الجامع الكبير مع الأسئلة - 32 — archive.org (1:30:13)
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