Cursing the wife by the husband and the wife by the husband
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Question:
One person asks and says: I cursed my wife with several curses, and I do not know how many curses. Another says: My wife cursed me with several curses. What is the ruling on a husband cursing his wife, and a wife cursing her husband? This is a second question.
Answer:
That is not permissible. He has no right to curse her, and she has no right to curse him. Both of them must repent to Allah, seek forgiveness, and show tolerance toward their spouse. Each one should ask the other for forgiveness, and the marriage remains valid, and the marital bond remains intact. Each one should ask his or her spouse for forgiveness and say, “Forgive me, pardon me, I have wronged you, I have hurt you,” and repent to Allah for that. Repentance wipes out what came before it. Praise be to Allah.
One person asks and says: I cursed my wife with several curses, and I do not know how many curses. Another says: My wife cursed me with several curses. What is the ruling on a husband cursing his wife, and a wife cursing her husband? This is a second question.
Answer:
That is not permissible. He has no right to curse her, and she has no right to curse him. Both of them must repent to Allah, seek forgiveness, and show tolerance toward their spouse. Each one should ask the other for forgiveness, and the marriage remains valid, and the marital bond remains intact. Each one should ask his or her spouse for forgiveness and say, “Forgive me, pardon me, I have wronged you, I have hurt you,” and repent to Allah for that. Repentance wipes out what came before it. Praise be to Allah.
Source
ندوات الجامع الكبير مع الأسئلة - 26 — archive.org (1:17:04)
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