The ruling on forcing a wife to wear gold
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The questioner : Yes, I recently got married, Shaykh, about a week ago. May Allah make her a righteous wife. She is taking your fatwa regarding gold jewelry into account, Shaykh?
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : So they forced her to wear it, and she wore the gold, so she sinned, Shaykh.
The Shaykh : Okay.
The questioner : Why doesn't she wear the gold that is not suspended?
The Shaykh : How does she sin?
The questioner : If they forced her to wear it.
The Shaykh : They forced her. Who forced her?
The questioner : My mother forced me, my mother.
The Shaykh : May Allah guide her and reform her.
The questioner : It was suspended gold or not, I didn't know about the fatwa. She insisted on wearing it on the day of the wedding when we got married. She insisted on buying it and wearing it.
The Shaykh : By Allah, my brother, I don't know. What is your situation with your mother? Do you advise her and be gentle in your advice to her, but she does not listen to you and does not obey your word? What is the situation between you and her?
The questioner : I spoke to her and told her this is the Shaykh's fatwa, and the girl does not want this because she sees that it is forbidden, and there is a hadith regarding this matter, but my mother was not convinced.
The Shaykh : Okay, if she persists in her piety and in not obeying your mother, what is the consequence?
The questioner : By Allah, the consequence is that the mother takes it away.
The Shaykh : Okay, she will be angry for a day or two or three, and then it will become a habit and the problem will end.
The questioner : Yes, you are right, Shaykh.
The Shaykh : So let you and your husband be patient.
The questioner : No, she only wore it that one day, Shaykh. She wore it and then she took the gold off and did not wear it again.
The Shaykh : If she does not return to it again, that is fine.
The questioner : Good, if Allah wills, Shaykh. Pray for us, Shaykh. May Allah reward you with good.
The Shaykh : May you be successful in all good, if Allah wills.
The questioner : May Allah keep you safe.
The Shaykh : May Allah keep you safe.
The questioner : Peace be upon you.
The Shaykh : Peace and the mercy of Allah and His blessings. May Allah deliver you from France. Until
The Shaykh : Yes.
The questioner : So they forced her to wear it, and she wore the gold, so she sinned, Shaykh.
The Shaykh : Okay.
The questioner : Why doesn't she wear the gold that is not suspended?
The Shaykh : How does she sin?
The questioner : If they forced her to wear it.
The Shaykh : They forced her. Who forced her?
The questioner : My mother forced me, my mother.
The Shaykh : May Allah guide her and reform her.
The questioner : It was suspended gold or not, I didn't know about the fatwa. She insisted on wearing it on the day of the wedding when we got married. She insisted on buying it and wearing it.
The Shaykh : By Allah, my brother, I don't know. What is your situation with your mother? Do you advise her and be gentle in your advice to her, but she does not listen to you and does not obey your word? What is the situation between you and her?
The questioner : I spoke to her and told her this is the Shaykh's fatwa, and the girl does not want this because she sees that it is forbidden, and there is a hadith regarding this matter, but my mother was not convinced.
The Shaykh : Okay, if she persists in her piety and in not obeying your mother, what is the consequence?
The questioner : By Allah, the consequence is that the mother takes it away.
The Shaykh : Okay, she will be angry for a day or two or three, and then it will become a habit and the problem will end.
The questioner : Yes, you are right, Shaykh.
The Shaykh : So let you and your husband be patient.
The questioner : No, she only wore it that one day, Shaykh. She wore it and then she took the gold off and did not wear it again.
The Shaykh : If she does not return to it again, that is fine.
The questioner : Good, if Allah wills, Shaykh. Pray for us, Shaykh. May Allah reward you with good.
The Shaykh : May you be successful in all good, if Allah wills.
The questioner : May Allah keep you safe.
The Shaykh : May Allah keep you safe.
The questioner : Peace be upon you.
The Shaykh : Peace and the mercy of Allah and His blessings. May Allah deliver you from France. Until
Source
سلسلة الهدى والنور، المجلس 1109 — d3watuna.com (17:24)
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