What are the qualities that should be present in one who wishes to perform reconciliation between people?

The questioner:
The questioner says: What are the qualities that should be present in one who wishes to perform reconciliation between people?

The Shaykh:
He should be one of forbearance and mindfulness of Allah, doing good deeds and being just toward himself, so that he may mediate between people with the knowledge, insight, justice, and humility that Allah has given him, so that he may mediate between those whom Satan has made discord and division attractive to. Among his qualities is that he be generous, noble, and liberal, able to spend money in reconciling people.
The reconciler is characterized by good character, humility, generosity, and nobility; pleasant speech, good speech, and avoiding bad speech. He mediates with pleasant words, a good manner, gentleness, generosity, and nobility. If the need arises for a feast, assistance, or something to be spent in order to achieve reconciliation, he provides it.

The presenter:
Yes.

The questioner:
The questioner says: It may happen that there is boycott between brothers in Allah due to matters of independent legal reasoning. And what is related to reconciliation is also

The Shaykh:
the council of wealth, even through the way of advance or loan. He bears the burden, borrowing from some of his brothers to reconcile the disputing and differing parties, whether from two tribes, two families, two brothers, or the like. He may need to spend money, even through borrowing. He is given from the zakah if he bears the burden for reconciliation. The reconciler between people is worthy of being helped and supported, even from the zakah. The authentic hadith. The Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said that asking for help is not permissible for anyone except three, and he mentioned among them , yes.