The ruling on asking the Messenger to make du'a at his grave
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Question:
This questioner asks, saying: If I visit the grave of the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) and say at his grave, "O Messenger of Allah, ask Allah for me," is the Messenger like others in this matter?
Answer:
Yes, nothing is asked of the deceased, neither the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) nor anyone else. Nothing is asked of him, no supplication or anything else. One sends salam to him (peace and blessings be upon him) and supplicates for him. One supplicates for him, but does not supplicate to him or ask him for anything. Yes.
This questioner asks, saying: If I visit the grave of the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) and say at his grave, "O Messenger of Allah, ask Allah for me," is the Messenger like others in this matter?
Answer:
Yes, nothing is asked of the deceased, neither the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) nor anyone else. Nothing is asked of him, no supplication or anything else. One sends salam to him (peace and blessings be upon him) and supplicates for him. One supplicates for him, but does not supplicate to him or ask him for anything. Yes.
Source
75-لقاءات مع الشيخ صالح الفوزان - 03----13-4-1432 — archive.org (1:13:50)
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