The ruling on refusing marriage at the command of the parents
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Question:
This sister, Umm Abdullah, says: May Allah bless you. Is refusing marriage undutifulness to the mother and the father?
Answer:
The one who refuses marriage harms himself by refusing. First, he has disobeyed Allah the Exalted by leaving marriage without a reason and without an excuse, and he has exposed himself to danger. Second, he has opposed the father or the mother, who ordered him to do what is right. So he has done something that is not fitting. He should hasten to marry as much as possible, unless he has an excuse, in which case he should show the father or the mother his excuse. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you,
This sister, Umm Abdullah, says: May Allah bless you. Is refusing marriage undutifulness to the mother and the father?
Answer:
The one who refuses marriage harms himself by refusing. First, he has disobeyed Allah the Exalted by leaving marriage without a reason and without an excuse, and he has exposed himself to danger. Second, he has opposed the father or the mother, who ordered him to do what is right. So he has done something that is not fitting. He should hasten to marry as much as possible, unless he has an excuse, in which case he should show the father or the mother his excuse. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you,
Source
نور على الدرب - الفوزان - 02/257 — archive.org (12:39)
The Arabic text is a machine transcription of the audio recording.