Text copied Link copied

Al-Fatawa – home

﴿ فَاسْأَلُوا أَهْلَ الذِّكْرِ إِن كُنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ ﴾

Scholar
Search mode

The Ruling on Raising One's Voice to One's Parents

Machine translationRead the Arabic original
Question:
This questioner says: Honorable Shaykh, what falls under undutifulness to parents? I have a father who does not hear well, so I raise my voice to him so that he can hear.

Answer:
Allah (Mighty and Majestic) said:
say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel themفَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا
[Al-Isra 17:23]
. Do not raise your voice to them without need. However, if raising your voice, as you mentioned, is out of need—namely, that he does not hear—then there is nothing wrong with it. You did not intend it, nor did you intend to raise your voice (peace and blessings be upon him), but rather you intended to make him hear your words. He may need this. This is not undutifulness. Dutifulness to parents includes lowering one's voice, being humble toward them, spending on them, obeying them in what is not disobedience, and other such matters. Yes.
Source نور على الدرب - الفوزان - 03/029 — archive.org (14:09)

The Arabic text is a machine transcription of the audio recording.

Flag this fatwa