Reconciliation between the wife and the husband's mother
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Question:
This questioner says: There are major problems between the wife and the husband's mother. How can one reconcile the wife and the husband's mother when these problems occur?
Answer:
The husband must reconcile his mother and his wife; he must make peace between them. He should prioritize his mother's satisfaction, but he must not wrong his wife. He must give his wife her rights and be dutiful to his mother. Each of them has a right over him: this one has the right of motherhood, and this one has the right of marriage. So he gives each one who has a right her due. If the wife living with her mother-in-law in the same residence is not compatible, he should provide his wife with a separate residence. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you.
This questioner says: There are major problems between the wife and the husband's mother. How can one reconcile the wife and the husband's mother when these problems occur?
Answer:
The husband must reconcile his mother and his wife; he must make peace between them. He should prioritize his mother's satisfaction, but he must not wrong his wife. He must give his wife her rights and be dutiful to his mother. Each of them has a right over him: this one has the right of motherhood, and this one has the right of marriage. So he gives each one who has a right her due. If the wife living with her mother-in-law in the same residence is not compatible, he should provide his wife with a separate residence. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you.
Source
نور على الدرب - الفوزان - 03/081 — archive.org (9:01)
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