The ruling on cursing one who wronged you and then forgiving him
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Question:
Another message received from a listener to the program. He says: If someone wrongs me, makes a mistake against me, or upsets me, I always say this phrase: “O Shaykh, may Allah not forgive him in this world or the Hereafter.” Now I have repented, I have forgiven, I have shaken hands, and I have pardoned everyone who wronged me or attacked me. Is there any sin on me for this supplication?
Answer:
You should not utter this in the first place. You should accustom yourself to forgiveness and pardon, and not utter such a supplication. However, since you have repented of this and pardoned everyone who wronged you and forgiven them, praise be to Allah. But do not return to such a statement. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you with good.
Another message received from a listener to the program. He says: If someone wrongs me, makes a mistake against me, or upsets me, I always say this phrase: “O Shaykh, may Allah not forgive him in this world or the Hereafter.” Now I have repented, I have forgiven, I have shaken hands, and I have pardoned everyone who wronged me or attacked me. Is there any sin on me for this supplication?
Answer:
You should not utter this in the first place. You should accustom yourself to forgiveness and pardon, and not utter such a supplication. However, since you have repented of this and pardoned everyone who wronged you and forgiven them, praise be to Allah. But do not return to such a statement. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you with good.
Source
نور على الدرب - الفوزان - 03/215 — archive.org (7:36)
The Arabic text is a machine transcription of the audio recording.