Advice for one who feels distress from his wife after the marriage contract
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Question:
May Allah reward you and bless you. The brother Firas says: Honorable Shaykh, I contracted the marriage and consummated it about four months ago, through my family who chose this wife for me. I, Honorable Shaykh, feel distress and tightness in my chest, and when I speak to her family or to her over the phone, I feel hesitation. Should I proceed with this marriage? And what do you advise me? May Allah reward you.
Answer:
I advise you not to be hasty, and to wait, perhaps Allah will remove this occurrence. You should engage in the remembrance of Allah and the adhkar in the morning and evening, and make du'a' so that this occurrence may be removed and you may live with your wife in comfort. If this occurrence persists, and if this tightness continues despite making efforts to remove it, then you separate from her and seek another,[An-Nisa 4:130], but let separation be the last resort; do not rush in this matter.
May Allah reward you and bless you. The brother Firas says: Honorable Shaykh, I contracted the marriage and consummated it about four months ago, through my family who chose this wife for me. I, Honorable Shaykh, feel distress and tightness in my chest, and when I speak to her family or to her over the phone, I feel hesitation. Should I proceed with this marriage? And what do you advise me? May Allah reward you.
Answer:
I advise you not to be hasty, and to wait, perhaps Allah will remove this occurrence. You should engage in the remembrance of Allah and the adhkar in the morning and evening, and make du'a' so that this occurrence may be removed and you may live with your wife in comfort. If this occurrence persists, and if this tightness continues despite making efforts to remove it, then you separate from her and seek another,
But if they separate [by divorce], Allah will enrich each [of them] from His abundance. And ever is Allah Encompassing and Wise.
وَإِن يَتَفَرَّقَا يُغْنِ اللَّهُ كُلًّا مِّن سَعَتِهِ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ وَاسِعًا حَكِيمًا
Source
نور على الدرب - الفوزان - 03/234 — archive.org (2:35)
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