How should I deal with my mother, who does not want me to do things that would benefit her and make her life easier because she is worried about me?
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Question:
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. He says: I do things my mother does not want me to do. I do them. I do things my mother does not want me to do, knowing that they are good for her and make her life easier, but she refuses these things out of concern for me. He asks: What is the ruling in this matter?
Answer:
Convince her that there is no hardship for you and that it is beneficial for her. I do not think she will object if you explain it to her, convince her, and reach an understanding with her. That is better for you. Yes.
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. He says: I do things my mother does not want me to do. I do them. I do things my mother does not want me to do, knowing that they are good for her and make her life easier, but she refuses these things out of concern for me. He asks: What is the ruling in this matter?
Answer:
Convince her that there is no hardship for you and that it is beneficial for her. I do not think she will object if you explain it to her, convince her, and reach an understanding with her. That is better for you. Yes.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، [429 -582] كيف أصنع مع أمي حيث لا تريد مني أن أفعل أمورا تنفعها وتريحها لأنها تخاف عليّ؟ — youtube.com
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