The Ruling on Attending Parties That Contain What Is Wrong
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Question:
The extra is close to me that it is the right answer, and he gave excellence in rescuing the Islamic customs, and it suffices the Messenger that for Allah, and I advised him that I that I that I break his wealth in this time, but he does not claim any interest, so is it recommended? The excess of this matter happened, he gave a generous gift in himself,
Answer:
If the party contains what is wrong, and you have forbidden it and advised him, but he did not accept, then do not attend this party, even if it is obligatory for him in itself, because this is what is wrong, and he is arrogant and refused to accept the advice. So it is obligatory for him to boycott attendance as a denial of what is wrong, and he is doing good. Yes.
And these exaggerations in parties, and holding the 'aradat (folk dances) and songs for entertainment, all of this is among what is wrong and is not permissible. The Sunnah is that women sing among themselves, and there is no harm in them singing with the usual singing with their voices among themselves; this is the Sunnah. As for men, it is not prescribed for them except gathering, eating food, praising Allah, and thanking Allah (Mighty and Majestic). As for these actions, they must be abandoned. These exaggerations and what is wrong: they stay up all night or sleep through the Fajr prayer or annoy the neighbors. All of these are violations, and it is not permissible to continue with them, even if it is the custom of the country. When customs contradict the Shari'ah, it is obligatory to distance oneself from them, because we, praise be to Allah, are Muslims. It is obligatory for us to follow what the Shari'ah commands and to abandon what the Shari'ah forbids.
The Creator of customs is obligatory, customs are corrected, if there is a deviation in them, they are corrected. Yes. It is forbidden for them to look at the congregation; he prays in his house, he prays with the congregation and completes the prayer, praise be to Allah, this is the Sunnah, this is what is required. As for him praying while looking at the congregation, this is forbidden. The prayer for the deceased, the congregation is not obligatory for it, neither for the deceased nor for the resident. The congregation is obligatory to attend the prayer with the residents, the deceased and the resident.
The extra is close to me that it is the right answer, and he gave excellence in rescuing the Islamic customs, and it suffices the Messenger that for Allah, and I advised him that I that I that I break his wealth in this time, but he does not claim any interest, so is it recommended? The excess of this matter happened, he gave a generous gift in himself,
Answer:
If the party contains what is wrong, and you have forbidden it and advised him, but he did not accept, then do not attend this party, even if it is obligatory for him in itself, because this is what is wrong, and he is arrogant and refused to accept the advice. So it is obligatory for him to boycott attendance as a denial of what is wrong, and he is doing good. Yes.
And these exaggerations in parties, and holding the 'aradat (folk dances) and songs for entertainment, all of this is among what is wrong and is not permissible. The Sunnah is that women sing among themselves, and there is no harm in them singing with the usual singing with their voices among themselves; this is the Sunnah. As for men, it is not prescribed for them except gathering, eating food, praising Allah, and thanking Allah (Mighty and Majestic). As for these actions, they must be abandoned. These exaggerations and what is wrong: they stay up all night or sleep through the Fajr prayer or annoy the neighbors. All of these are violations, and it is not permissible to continue with them, even if it is the custom of the country. When customs contradict the Shari'ah, it is obligatory to distance oneself from them, because we, praise be to Allah, are Muslims. It is obligatory for us to follow what the Shari'ah commands and to abandon what the Shari'ah forbids.
The Creator of customs is obligatory, customs are corrected, if there is a deviation in them, they are corrected. Yes. It is forbidden for them to look at the congregation; he prays in his house, he prays with the congregation and completes the prayer, praise be to Allah, this is the Sunnah, this is what is required. As for him praying while looking at the congregation, this is forbidden. The prayer for the deceased, the congregation is not obligatory for it, neither for the deceased nor for the resident. The congregation is obligatory to attend the prayer with the residents, the deceased and the resident.
Source
شرح ثلاثة الأصول وأدلتها، أركان الإيمان الستة وأدلتها — islamhouse.com (1:15:38)
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