The engagement of a woman with her suitor and seclusion with her
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The Shaykh:
As it came in the hadith, he recites the verse from Surat al-Imran, then the verse from Surat al-Nisa, then the verse from al-Ahsa; he recites them in the order they were recited. It is all good, there is nothing wrong with it. This is a sound matter.
The questioner:
That he goes with her to the market.
The Shaykh:
No, it is not permissible for him to be with her except with a mahram, or a muharram, or an extra person such as her sister or her mother, or the like.
The questioner:
May Allah reward you.
The Shaykh:
He does not seclude himself with her.
The questioner:
That is, he buys her gold or gifts.
The Shaykh:
He does not seclude himself with her, and he does not seclude himself with her.
The questioner:
Does he resist her in the gathering because of her state?
The Shaykh:
With them, for example, what he carried.
The questioner:
Without what is forbidden.
The Shaykh:
If a third person is with him, he does not deceive her mother, nor her sister, nor her maternal aunt.
The questioner:
It is not reported that 'Ali ibn Abi Talib or 'Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with them) revealed the condition of Abu al-Kalthum.
The Shaykh:
It is narrated from him, but its authenticity is not known; is it known to be authentic?
The questioner:
He covers the face and the hands.
The Shaykh:
He covers his face for that, and as for the head, if there is no clothing on the head, it may be necessary to see it.
As it came in the hadith, he recites the verse from Surat al-Imran, then the verse from Surat al-Nisa, then the verse from al-Ahsa; he recites them in the order they were recited. It is all good, there is nothing wrong with it. This is a sound matter.
The questioner:
That he goes with her to the market.
The Shaykh:
No, it is not permissible for him to be with her except with a mahram, or a muharram, or an extra person such as her sister or her mother, or the like.
The questioner:
May Allah reward you.
The Shaykh:
He does not seclude himself with her.
The questioner:
That is, he buys her gold or gifts.
The Shaykh:
He does not seclude himself with her, and he does not seclude himself with her.
The questioner:
Does he resist her in the gathering because of her state?
The Shaykh:
With them, for example, what he carried.
The questioner:
Without what is forbidden.
The Shaykh:
If a third person is with him, he does not deceive her mother, nor her sister, nor her maternal aunt.
The questioner:
It is not reported that 'Ali ibn Abi Talib or 'Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with them) revealed the condition of Abu al-Kalthum.
The Shaykh:
It is narrated from him, but its authenticity is not known; is it known to be authentic?
The questioner:
He covers the face and the hands.
The Shaykh:
He covers his face for that, and as for the head, if there is no clothing on the head, it may be necessary to see it.
Source
شرح بلوغ المرام [ ابن باز ] [ الشرح الجديد ]، تابع أحاديث في النكاح - 1 — islamhouse.com
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