Speaking with the fiancée on the phone without the knowledge of her guardian
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Question:
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. He says: Is it permissible to speak with the fiancée on the phone about private matters without the knowledge of her parents, or is it preferable to write her a letter instead of speaking directly?
Answer:
He should seek permission from her father, seek permission from her guardian, and speak with her about what is needed regarding the matters of marriage. He should seek permission from her guardian.
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. He says: Is it permissible to speak with the fiancée on the phone about private matters without the knowledge of her parents, or is it preferable to write her a letter instead of speaking directly?
Answer:
He should seek permission from her father, seek permission from her guardian, and speak with her about what is needed regarding the matters of marriage. He should seek permission from her guardian.
Source
شرح إغاثة اللهفان من مصائد الشيطان لابن القيم، فصل وأول كيده ومكره : أنه كاد الأبوين بالأيمان الكاذبة — islamhouse.com (1:11:34)
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