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﴿ فَاسْأَلُوا أَهْلَ الذِّكْرِ إِن كُنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ ﴾

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Visiting a disbelieving mother and being dutiful to her

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Question:
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. This man asks and says: My mother is a disbelieving woman. Is it permissible for me to visit her in her home?

Answer:
Yes, the right of the father is due, even if he is a disbeliever. Even if he is a disbeliever, he has a right: the right to be treated with dutifulness and kindness. But you do not follow him in his religion,
But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey themوَإِن جَاهَدَاكَ عَلَىٰ أَن تُشْرِكَ بِي مَا لَيْسَ لَكَ بِهِ عِلْمٌ فَلَا تُطِعْهُمَا
[Luqman 31:15]
. In religion, you do not obey them. As for being dutiful to them and being kind to them, that falls under the category of repaying kindness with kindness. Yes.
Source شرح إغاثة اللهفان من مصائد الشيطان لابن القيم، تتمة فصل ومن كيده الذي بلغ به من الجهال ما بلغ : الوسواس — islamhouse.com (1:06:15)

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