What is Permissible for the Fiancé with His Fiancée and Going Out with Her
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The questioner:
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success, this questioner says: What is permissible for the fiancé with his fiancée?
The Shaykh:
He looks at what he desires in her, without being alone with her. Either he watches her when she is not aware, or he sits with her in the presence of her mahram (a relative one may not marry) and looks at what he desires in her. Yes.
The questioner:
Then he says, may Allah preserve you: Is it permissible for the fiancé to go out with his fiancée in the company of her young brother or her young brother?
The Shaykh:
No, it is necessary that there be an adult with them. It is not enough for there to be a child with them; the child does not know. Yes.
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success, this questioner says: What is permissible for the fiancé with his fiancée?
The Shaykh:
He looks at what he desires in her, without being alone with her. Either he watches her when she is not aware, or he sits with her in the presence of her mahram (a relative one may not marry) and looks at what he desires in her. Yes.
The questioner:
Then he says, may Allah preserve you: Is it permissible for the fiancé to go out with his fiancée in the company of her young brother or her young brother?
The Shaykh:
No, it is necessary that there be an adult with them. It is not enough for there to be a child with them; the child does not know. Yes.
Source
شرح إغاثة اللهفان من مصائد الشيطان لابن القيم، فصل ومن مكايده التي بلغ فيها مراده : مكيدة التحليل — islamhouse.com (51:27)
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