Supplicating against one's parents when they wrong them
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Question:
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. A questioner says: If my father wrongs me, or if my mother wrongs me, is it permissible for me to supplicate against them?
Answer:
No, do not supplicate against them. Be patient with that, and do not put them in a difficult position. You are the one putting them in a difficult position. They did not wrong you except because you put them in a difficult position and angered them. Yes.
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. A questioner says: If my father wrongs me, or if my mother wrongs me, is it permissible for me to supplicate against them?
Answer:
No, do not supplicate against them. Be patient with that, and do not put them in a difficult position. You are the one putting them in a difficult position. They did not wrong you except because you put them in a difficult position and angered them. Yes.
Source
شرح إغاثة اللهفان من مصائد الشيطان لابن القيم، فصل ومن مكايده التي كاد بها الإسلام وأهله : الحيل والمكر والخداع — islamhouse.com (1:10:12)
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