The ruling on undutifulness toward a mother if she wronged her son
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Question:
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. This questioner says: My full brother does not obey our mother; rather, he is undutiful to her, and he says that she was unjust to me when I was young. He asks: Is this action prescribed? If she was unjust, does he become undutiful to her?
Answer:
No, it is not permissible for him to be undutiful to his mother. Rather, it is obligatory for him to be dutiful to her, even if she treated him badly. And I do not think a mother would treat her son badly, but assuming that is the case, yes.
Honorable Shaykh, may Allah grant you success. This questioner says: My full brother does not obey our mother; rather, he is undutiful to her, and he says that she was unjust to me when I was young. He asks: Is this action prescribed? If she was unjust, does he become undutiful to her?
Answer:
No, it is not permissible for him to be undutiful to his mother. Rather, it is obligatory for him to be dutiful to her, even if she treated him badly. And I do not think a mother would treat her son badly, but assuming that is the case, yes.
Source
شرح إغاثة اللهفان من مصائد الشيطان لابن القيم، فصل وتمام الكلام في هذا المقام العظيم يتبين بأصول نافعة جامعة — islamhouse.com (1:06:13)
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