The ruling on deriving pleasure from one’s wife and ejaculating without intercourse
Machine translationRead the Arabic original
Question:
The question: Do you write to the judge of Manah? And is it permissible that he be ordered in this situation to do everything like intercourse, even if it harms the hearts of the household?
Answer:
Yes, there is no harm. If semen comes out of him without intercourse in the private parts, yes, he must perform the full ritual bath. He enters a state of major ritual impurity and must perform the full ritual bath. It is permissible for him to have intercourse with her in other than the private parts, and to ejaculate as well. Some people may have strength and desire, and they need this distinction. There is no obstacle. Allah has made that permissible. Yes.
The question: Do you write to the judge of Manah? And is it permissible that he be ordered in this situation to do everything like intercourse, even if it harms the hearts of the household?
Answer:
Yes, there is no harm. If semen comes out of him without intercourse in the private parts, yes, he must perform the full ritual bath. He enters a state of major ritual impurity and must perform the full ritual bath. It is permissible for him to have intercourse with her in other than the private parts, and to ejaculate as well. Some people may have strength and desire, and they need this distinction. There is no obstacle. Allah has made that permissible. Yes.
Source
شرح بلوغ المرام من أدلة الأحكام [ صالح الفوزان ]، باب الحيض — islamhouse.com (53:29)
The Arabic text is a machine transcription of the audio recording.