Marriage to a woman who displays her adornment with the intention of calling her to Islam after marriage
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The questioner:
Honorable Shaykh, a man wants to marry a beautiful woman, but she is one who displays her adornment,
The Shaykh:
But.
The questioner:
a woman who displays her adornment, and he says: I will call her to adherence to the Shari'ah after marriage, and perhaps she will be guided through me,
The Shaykh:
And what makes you think that she will obey you, or that she will rebel against you, or that you will remain silent? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He says: Press and it appears to that woman who is displaying her adornment and is gradually [changing], and she says, perhaps she will see, perhaps she will. I tried, but she did not see her. I tried to be affected by her. She sees her beauty and goes with her to what she wants. Yes.
Honorable Shaykh, a man wants to marry a beautiful woman, but she is one who displays her adornment,
The Shaykh:
But.
The questioner:
a woman who displays her adornment, and he says: I will call her to adherence to the Shari'ah after marriage, and perhaps she will be guided through me,
The Shaykh:
And what makes you think that she will obey you, or that she will rebel against you, or that you will remain silent? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
Stick to the one with the Sīn
عليك بذات السينStick to the one with the Sīn, and your hands will be repelled
بذات السين فردت يداك
Source
شرح بلوغ المرام من أدلة الأحكام [ صالح الفوزان ]، باب القسم — islamhouse.com (1:04:35)
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