The Ruling on Mentioning the Flaws of a Prospective Husband When Seeking Advice
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Question:
He says: If I am consulted about a man regarding the marriage of my friend's daughter, and I know of some of his faults and some shortcomings, is it considered talebearing if I inform him of them?
Answer:
No, consultation requires that you clarify the matter. This is part of giving sincere advice. It is not permissible for you to deceive your brother when you know of matters that are hidden from him, if he consults you. And if he seeks your advice, give him advice, as mentioned in the hadith. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you,
He says: If I am consulted about a man regarding the marriage of my friend's daughter, and I know of some of his faults and some shortcomings, is it considered talebearing if I inform him of them?
Answer:
No, consultation requires that you clarify the matter. This is part of giving sincere advice. It is not permissible for you to deceive your brother when you know of matters that are hidden from him, if he consults you. And if he seeks your advice, give him advice, as mentioned in the hadith. Yes.
The presenter:
May Allah reward you,
Source
قناة «السعودية»، برنامج فتاوى — youtube.com (47:07)
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