Is it permissible for a man to invite his wife to have intercourse if it harms her, and is she obligated to obey?
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The questioner : The woman complained about her private parts.
The Shaykh : So in this case, it is forbidden for him to have intercourse with her if intercourse harms her; it is forbidden for him in the first place, and it is not permissible for him to invite her to intercourse in this state where she is harmed by it.
The questioner : Behind.
The Shaykh : No, he does not enter unless he is seeking pleasure without intercourse. If he asks her to be present but does not have intercourse, it falls under the hadith.
The Shaykh : So in this case, it is forbidden for him to have intercourse with her if intercourse harms her; it is forbidden for him in the first place, and it is not permissible for him to invite her to intercourse in this state where she is harmed by it.
The questioner : Behind.
The Shaykh : No, he does not enter unless he is seeking pleasure without intercourse. If he asks her to be present but does not have intercourse, it falls under the hadith.
Source
قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 2047 - 4600 هل يجوز للرجل أن يدعوا زوجته للجماع إذا كان يضرها وهل يجب عليها أن تطيع؟ ابن عثيمين — youtube.com
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