Is it permissible for a man to go against his family and marry a girl they do not want?
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Question:
May Allah reward you with good and do you well. One of our brothers from Indonesia sent a message asking, and he says: I want to marry a girl, but my family refused and refused to agree, even though she is of good character and faith. So, is there a sin on me if I leave her, or how do you guide me if I go against my family and marry her?
Answer:
If she is of good character and religion, and there is nothing in her that prevents your marriage to her according to the Shari'ah, then it is permissible for you to marry her. However, if that leads to misunderstanding and disagreement with your family, then agreement is required, and there is no good in disagreement. And women are many, praise be to Allah. So, you must either convince your family to marry this woman, or seek another woman such that no dispute arises between you and your family regarding it, because of the severance and bad consequences that result from the dispute. It is feared that this will affect your future with your family and your relatives. Yes.
May Allah reward you with good and do you well. One of our brothers from Indonesia sent a message asking, and he says: I want to marry a girl, but my family refused and refused to agree, even though she is of good character and faith. So, is there a sin on me if I leave her, or how do you guide me if I go against my family and marry her?
Answer:
If she is of good character and religion, and there is nothing in her that prevents your marriage to her according to the Shari'ah, then it is permissible for you to marry her. However, if that leads to misunderstanding and disagreement with your family, then agreement is required, and there is no good in disagreement. And women are many, praise be to Allah. So, you must either convince your family to marry this woman, or seek another woman such that no dispute arises between you and your family regarding it, because of the severance and bad consequences that result from the dispute. It is feared that this will affect your future with your family and your relatives. Yes.
Source
قناة «العلامة الدكتور صالح الفوزان»، هل يجوز للرجل أن يخالف أهله ويتزوج فتاة لا يريدونها؟ الشيخ صالح الفوزان — youtube.com
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