Is there evidence in the hadith "Fear Allah and be patient" that permits a woman to visit graves?
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Question : Yes, what is it?
Answer : He took them with the hadith of Anas that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to the woman who was weeping over the son of Abi al-Fadha: "Fear Allah and be patient." He did not enter her house as he had ordered her to do in the row. Yes. Do not compare it to the funeral, because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had cursed the men and women who wail. This is the hadith.
Yes, this is not a visit; it was her being compelled to go out to her son's grave by the grief and sorrow in her heart, and it is not the customary visit where the visitor seeks to draw near to Allah.
Therefore, when she was informed that it was the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) and came to apologize, he said to her: "Patience is only at the first shock." The discussion is about the visit by which a person seeks to draw near to Allah, and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) intended to address the problem of her grief and lack of patience.
Answer : He took them with the hadith of Anas that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to the woman who was weeping over the son of Abi al-Fadha: "Fear Allah and be patient." He did not enter her house as he had ordered her to do in the row. Yes. Do not compare it to the funeral, because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had cursed the men and women who wail. This is the hadith.
Yes, this is not a visit; it was her being compelled to go out to her son's grave by the grief and sorrow in her heart, and it is not the customary visit where the visitor seeks to draw near to Allah.
Therefore, when she was informed that it was the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) and came to apologize, he said to her: "Patience is only at the first shock." The discussion is about the visit by which a person seeks to draw near to Allah, and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) intended to address the problem of her grief and lack of patience.
Source
قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 4128 - 4600 هل في حديث اتق الله واصبري دليل على جواز زيارة المرأة للقبور؟ ابن عثيمين — youtube.com
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