Is a quarrel between a mother and her daughter a severance of family ties?
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The questioner : Here, a daughter is quarreling with her mother, meaning for about a month. They are in a state of quarrel and have been sitting apart for a long period. The mother does not attack her daughter, nor does the daughter attack her mother. Is this wrong or right?
The Shaykh : No, it is not permissible. This is severing family ties. It is obligatory for the woman and her daughter, it is obligatory for both of them, to please one another and to return to dutifulness and goodness, and to leave off the severance.
The questioner : She named her after her, and she has boycotted her mother; she has not spoken to her.
The Shaykh : Yes, she has committed a sin in her dutifulness to her mother, and her mother has also committed a sin in her dutifulness to her.
The questioner : By Allah, I advised them, but it was not enough, yet I could not do more.
The Shaykh : In any case, may Allah guide them. Do not despair; advise them.
The questioner : I have a daughter and a son, and I am always quarreling with their mother.
The Shaykh : No, it is wrong. This is wrong. The mother has a right.
The questioner : And she raised them, and she lives with them, and everything else, and they have no other mother.
The Shaykh : The mother has a right.
The questioner : Nine months.
The Shaykh : The mother has a right, and it is obligatory for them to please their mother.
The questioner : And she is in...
The Shaykh : And it is also upon their mother that she accepts their excuse if they apologize.
The questioner : No one... they do not apologize, nor do they admit her mistake; they attribute it to her, nor do they... May Allah keep you safe.
The Shaykh : May Allah guide them.
The questioner : Their mother and father are deceased, and she is the one responsible for the mother and the father.
The Shaykh : May Allah guide us and them, may Allah guide us and them.
The questioner : Fair enough, we will not prolong it for him.
The Shaykh : With peace.
The Shaykh : No, it is not permissible. This is severing family ties. It is obligatory for the woman and her daughter, it is obligatory for both of them, to please one another and to return to dutifulness and goodness, and to leave off the severance.
The questioner : She named her after her, and she has boycotted her mother; she has not spoken to her.
The Shaykh : Yes, she has committed a sin in her dutifulness to her mother, and her mother has also committed a sin in her dutifulness to her.
The questioner : By Allah, I advised them, but it was not enough, yet I could not do more.
The Shaykh : In any case, may Allah guide them. Do not despair; advise them.
The questioner : I have a daughter and a son, and I am always quarreling with their mother.
The Shaykh : No, it is wrong. This is wrong. The mother has a right.
The questioner : And she raised them, and she lives with them, and everything else, and they have no other mother.
The Shaykh : The mother has a right.
The questioner : Nine months.
The Shaykh : The mother has a right, and it is obligatory for them to please their mother.
The questioner : And she is in...
The Shaykh : And it is also upon their mother that she accepts their excuse if they apologize.
The questioner : No one... they do not apologize, nor do they admit her mistake; they attribute it to her, nor do they... May Allah keep you safe.
The Shaykh : May Allah guide them.
The questioner : Their mother and father are deceased, and she is the one responsible for the mother and the father.
The Shaykh : May Allah guide us and them, may Allah guide us and them.
The questioner : Fair enough, we will not prolong it for him.
The Shaykh : With peace.
Source
قناة «فضيلة الشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين»، 326- هل الخصام بين الأم وبنتها قطيعة رحم 📍سؤال من حاج 🕋 📍 #ابن_عثيمين — youtube.com
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