The ruling on obeying one's father in leaving off the shaving for 'Umrah
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The questioner : If Allah wills, okay, can I ask another question? I performed 'Umrah and I preferred to shave in accordance with the practice of the Messenger, but my father objects. Do I obey my father or not?
The Shaykh : And why is he objecting? Why did he object?
The questioner : He tells me to shave, meaning he says it will disfigure your appearance, and it is a bit messy.
The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah. No, do the good, do the good, and please your father.
The questioner : So, do I not obey him, do I obey him, or do I not obey him?
The Shaykh : No, do not obey him in leaving off an act of obedience, unless there is harm to him. Here, there is no harm to him. Acts of obedience are either obligatory or recommended. The obligatory ones must be carried out, whether he is pleased or not, and the recommended ones, look at
The Shaykh : And why is he objecting? Why did he object?
The questioner : He tells me to shave, meaning he says it will disfigure your appearance, and it is a bit messy.
The Shaykh : I seek refuge in Allah. No, do the good, do the good, and please your father.
The questioner : So, do I not obey him, do I obey him, or do I not obey him?
The Shaykh : No, do not obey him in leaving off an act of obedience, unless there is harm to him. Here, there is no harm to him. Acts of obedience are either obligatory or recommended. The obligatory ones must be carried out, whether he is pleased or not, and the recommended ones, look at
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سؤال من حاج 1407هـ - 1 — binothaimeen.net (52:43)
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